Tantrum

I’ve been working at the school for years and I’ve seen a lot of tantrum- bad behaviors in some of our children. I don’t want to blame anyone, but then this kind of behavior comes from their homes. Some of the parents expect the school to take care of their kid problems. The school feed them, babysit them, and deal with their disrespect. For some parents taking care of their kids it’s our job.

This new generation of parents is afraid of discipline their own children. They don’t like to be judged as a parent and they preferred someone else doing it for them. Of course, they want us to deal with them. Some parents like to make excuses. I know we’ve some parents with two jobs and they are tired, but then we’re talking about their job as a parent. It’s frightening to think this is our future generation the ones who will be taking care of us.
Nowadays bad behaviors and tantrums are called a disorder. They pump their kids with medications and supposedly to calm them down they leave them alone. In our school they’ve a separate room only for them. They sit with a laptop, play with toys, or they take a nap.

I’m going to clarify something here, not all the parents are acting like this. I know some’s who are doing an amazing job as a parent. They work hard and their kids are wonderful children.

When I was growing up they didn’t call bad tantrum or bad behaviors a disorder. The parents would take care of the situation and not the teachers. I remember we will get grounded it for weeks with no TV, no playing outside with our friends, no desserts, and we were sent to bed early.

Now it’s my children turn to raise their own. They don’t believe in awarding bad behaviors and they don’t make excuses. If my grandchildren don’t behave, they would be grounded and they’ll going to lose their privileges. No tantrums are allowed.

To parents, I know it’s tough to discipline these days, especially when some of you had two jobs and be a single parent. However, it’s time to be responsible and show who’s the parent and who’s the child. Don’t give them more that they need and no award bad behavior. A six-year-old don’t need a cell phone as a birthday gift or expenses tennis shoes. Don’t relay in the schools to take care of the discipline of your child. Be tough when its need it and show love to your child. Talk to them and give them attention possibly that’s all what they need.

Daily Post: Tantrum

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One- Liner Wednesday~A Friend

“A friend is what the heart needs all the time”.~ Henry Van Dyke

 

 

 

 

One-Liner Wednesday is hosted by Linda G. Hill.

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SoCS~Spoke

Your Friday prompt for Stream of Consciousness Saturday is “spoke.” Use it somewhere, in some form, in your post. Bonus points if you don’t use it in the first sentence. Enjoy!

It has been a beautiful day warm and sunny. The temperature has begun to warm up and spring is approaching. Also, my face and arms don’t look pale and I love to see them with a slight of sunburn. I spoke to my granddaughters it was time to start walking in the park and get fresh air. Besides, we feel light, energized, and optimistic after being outside with no coats.

I plan to work in my garden soon. Preparing my flower garden with new gravel, seeds, and more roses. Also, I want to prepare in my garden the spot where my beloved dog would be resting.

I’m ready for the outdoors.

One- Liner Wednesday~ To my dad

“DAD… Remembering you is easy, I do it every day. Missing you is the heartache that never goes away.”

 

Tomorrow would be five months since my father passed away. I miss him very much.

To my dad; I love you and you always be in my heart next to mom.

 

In response of One-Liner Wednesday hosted by Linda G. Hill.

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SoCS- Agressive

This is Bruno.

Bruno is a Rottweiler and his three years old and for some reason some people assume he’s an aggressive dog. A few members of my family are afraid of him. The only problem Bruno have it’s his strength. Since he loves to jump and play you need to be careful if you don’t want to end on the floor. When he wants our attention, he will drop his toys or lay his large head in our lap.

The grandkids love playing with him, especially when all of them have the same energy. It’s incredible how he guards the family also, he follows the baby wherever she goes. Bruno is a sweet and lovely dog. He responded like a baby puppy.

For many families who has certain type of dogs I suppose they’re having the same problem. It’s heartbreaking the way we can react and we immediately think they’re aggressive. We have to remember it all depends on how we treat, teach, and raise them.

The Friday Reminder and Prompt for #SoCS April 7/18